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Growth & Development: Watch Me, Mommy!

New Independence…

By age two, your toddler is probably increasingly independent and doing things for themselves, like picking up their toys, washing their hands and brushing their teeth without help. Some parents refer to this stage as "the terrible two's" because your toddler has begun to take more risks and assert an independent spirit. They're walking on their own and getting better at running and jumping. They are also slimming down, as your toddler's limbs and torso lengthen. Your toddler's head is growing more slowly, so his/her proportions are starting to resemble those of an adult.1

Improved Communication Skills…

Your toddler is also talking more, and may have 50 words or more in his/her vocabulary. They can put together simple two-word sentences, but don't worry if you can only understand them about half the time, they may not have the hang of pronouns yet, so you may notice he/she avoids them completely.1

Still Uncertain…

While their new found independence may make your little one easier to care for, it can also be unpredictable. They may test your limits one minute, and want to cling to you for comfort the next. Give him/her attention and reassurance when they need it without going overboard; anxiety from being away from you will likely fade in the next few months.1

Toddler Tips

Good Advice for Mom

  • Don't worry if your little one is still sucking their thumb. The American Dental Association (ADA) says it won't damage teeth or jaw alignment until permanent teeth appear, which is usually around age six. Try to wait them out; most children give up the habit when they find they can comfort themselves with snacks or naps.2
  • Check with the pharmacist before crushing medicine. Sometimes crushed medicine tablets make them easier for your child to swallow. But it's a good idea to check with the pharmacist first - the protective coating may be there to prevent stomach irritation or make sure the medication does what it's supposed to do.3

1 “Your 25-Month Old”www.babycenter.com

2 “Thumb-Sucking”www.babycenter.com

3 “Medicine Maneuvers: 7 Things Every Mom Must Know”www.parents.com

Consult your physician or dental professional if using another fluoridated product.

Helpful Tips
for Parents

Lunch Box Basics

If you're concerned about your toddler getting a healthy meal or snack when he heads off to nursery school, daycare or the babysitter's, fix it yourself! He'll like the grown-up feeling of carrying his own lunch box and you'll rest easy knowing he's getting the nutrition he may need.
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Toddler on Aisle Three

Holiday shopping with a toddler doesn't have to be stressful. Try these tips: Go in the morning when she's less likely to be cranky. Give her regular breaks from the stroller or shopping cart to let off steam. Bring water and healthy snacks like nuts, raisins or granola bars to keep her energy up, and disposable wipes for cleaning hands. Tell her the store rules and enforce them. Remind her to use her soft "public" voice when she needs something.

Source: "Ten Tips for All Day Shopping with a Toddler," www.thingamababy.com, May 18, 2006; "How to Take a Toddler Shopping," by Rose Halas, www.essortment.com